Following months of rumors, celebrity couple Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner have announced they plan to divorce.

“After much thought and careful consideration, we have made the difficult decision to divorce,” the couple said in a joint statement to TMZ and other publications. “We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children whose privacy we ask to be respected during this difficult time.”

TMZ says that Affleck and Garner are still in the midst of figuring out the business of their divorce, so the split won’t be complete anytime soon.

The couple began dating in 2004 and married in 2005. They went on to give birth to three children named Violet Anne, Sera Rose Elizabeth, and Sam.

Notably, the couple were married for 10 years as of yesterday, June 29. They were married in the Turks and Caicos Islands by actor Victor Garber, the ceremony’s only attendee.

Here’s a great video of Affleck’s ALS Ice Bucket Challenge from last year. Garner has the honor of pouring the bucket of ice on her husband’s head as their kids joyously laugh in the background. These were better days!

The announcement comes roughly a week before Affleck is expected to appear at San Diego Comic-Con to promote Warner Bros.’ Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice in which the actor plays Batman.

We wish the two the best as they go through this difficult process.